Editor, Sexology.
My pastor, a newly ordained priest, has advised me to present my case to you, in the hope that you may be of help. I am 25 years old and, for four years, have indulged in homosexual practices with a younger man. It began when I, who had given up studying for a clergyman, in the belief that it was not my vocation went with this young man to pique the girl with whom I had been keeping company. He professed love for me; but, when we went to confession, we had the wrongful nature of our acts pointed out, and had to promise not to see each other again. It was much easier to promise this than to do this. He protested love for me, and when he was ill, sent for me, and begged me "not to let any girl get me." But now he's keeping steady company with a girl, to drown suspicions people may have of us. I hate to give him up, though I know it is the right thing to do, so far as society and the church are concerned. But I want to have a home of my own, a wife and children. Will I ever be a will to do this, in spite of years of the wrong kind of activities? My pastor says he believes that your answer, as a physician, will be valuable to me, as well as his, as a priest. He tells me "Suffer if you must, but be pure." You can see how little it helps. Can this other man possibly make a success of marriage?